
Mr Monkey - try and ride a few. I've ridden a Sub 5 and like it - the SL felt a little short, but I'm a lanky bugger as you know. I love my Proclasses (plush, *no* flex even with a Hope tit. QR), and if you're 12 stone I would have thought they'd be fine. I'm 11 and have been jumping mine with no apparent problems. The steerer tube is thicker now too. And they're British. Otherwise I'd do the Zokes or Fox. Not a great Rock Shox fan.
Sorry to hear it's all got a little nasty. Stay single! Far less hassle, especially when you have access to channel 5 and late night cable.
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